Tag Archives: Love

Commitment!

The title of my post today should make it pretty clear what I’ll be focusing on – that sticky wicket called commitment. As I mentioned in one of my first blog posts, a common question that my monogamous friends ask … Continue reading

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The Many Loves of Patrick

Warning: This post contains discussion of my dating life, including discussion of sex and sexuality. If that makes you feel uncomfortable, please feel free to read one of the dozens of other posts on here. One of my favorites is … Continue reading

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The NRE Trap

Edit: After a conversation with one of my most trusted readers, I realized that in posts like this, perhaps I come across as being the final authority on all things relationship based. Everything I write about is based on my … Continue reading

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Always Striving

Over the weekend I had a dismaying conversation with a friend I made a few weeks ago. She let me know that she didn’t feel “safe” around me. Now, to be clear, she wasn’t implying that she felt physically endangered … Continue reading

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Falling Over and Over: New Relationship Energy

I am a die-hard romantic. Have been since that day in December of 1990 when I sat in a dark movie theater, and saw Edward Scissorhands for the first time. I feel in love as Edward (played by the brilliant Johnny … Continue reading

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QFMMF: Infinite Love

Welcome to my new recurring blog feature, QFMMF! No, QFMMF is not some weird orgy-tastic kink party combination (though it sounds like it would be fun if so – I get the M’s and F’s, but what is the Q? So … Continue reading

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