Tag Archives: Relationships

The Many Loves of Patrick

Warning: This post contains discussion of my dating life, including discussion of sex and sexuality. If that makes you feel uncomfortable, please feel free to read one of the dozens of other posts on here. One of my favorites is … Continue reading

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Why come out as poly?

So, today, July 7th 2014 at 8am (CST), I finally came out as polyamorous in a post on Facebook – you can read the open letter that I wrote to my FB friends here. I know, I know, I’ve been … Continue reading

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Poly isn’t easy

The title of today’s post is “Poly isn’t easy.” The subtitle, if I had the option of putting in a subtitle, would be “but then again, no relationship is easy.” One of my goals with this blog is to show … Continue reading

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A Matter of Choice

I have touched on the topic of “choice” in several other blog posts, but because this topic is such a core part of my belief system, it really deserves it’s own post. So, here it is! We often talk about … Continue reading

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QFMMF: What Does Dating Look Like?

I recently had a new and exciting friend (we’ll call her Sara – that’s the name she chose!) ask me about what it’s like for a poly person to date, and how it might be different from the dating life … Continue reading

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The NRE Trap

Edit: After a conversation with one of my most trusted readers, I realized that in posts like this, perhaps I come across as being the final authority on all things relationship based. Everything I write about is based on my … Continue reading

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The Attraction Dilemma

I teach interpersonal communication to college students who range in age from 17 to 60 – being a professorĀ at a community college offers such a diversity of experience and perspectives, that teaching this class is one of the highlights of … Continue reading

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